The Road to 65, Mile 104: Stubborness

March 12, 2015, Prescott-  I got a good rest today, it being still Spring Break until Monday.  Having a base to  which I may return is always a comfort.  I will likely be free from a short-term obligation, after tomorrow, and will be able to take on more work, until summer comes around.  That will make me a familiar face in the local charter schools, as well as the public institutions.

I am, by nature, a flexible soul.  There are certain things about which I won’t budge, but all in all, I believe, as I said earlier, in going with the flow.  I am finding a few people, one of whom would like to depend on me, to a large extent, to be quite stubborn,when it comes to avoiding responsibility for their own lives and making necessary changes.

I suppose that’s human nature.  We get comfortable and expect things to stay the same, in perpetuity.  To me, though, not monitoring a situation and adjusting, as needed, is the lowest form of selfishness.  No one can live, fully, as if others don’t have a right to their own lives and dreams.  This selfishness comes out, of course, in everything from theft to road rage.

No one is entitled, pure and simple, to anything that belongs to someone else, be it possessions, dreams, or, in the case of someone outside the family, time.

2 thoughts on “The Road to 65, Mile 104: Stubborness

  1. When one has failed at taking the responsibility we all have for our own lives, it becomes terribly easy to rely upon those who attempt to help. Everything offered is readily accepted, and then becomes an expectation. Unfortunately, there is a little selfishness in all of us — the expectation that offered assistance will be fully accepted in the way it was intended can also be a little selfish. I’m glad you got some good rest and are ready for a busy spring!!

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  2. I will admit to being selfish, in that I like following my own heart, without a whole lot of impediment. At the same time, I am there when the community is in turmoil or facing a disaster.

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