October 29, 2017, Prescott-
A couple of years ago, one who is closest to me
said “I forgive you”,
in the context of reassuring me
of his filial devotion.
It was not specific to anything,
leaving me to guess,
as to which of several possible
lapses in parental judgment,
to which he might have been referring.
Others, over the years,
have accepted apologies
and held me to my word.
Still others, have simply
dropped out of sight,
though no one ever
drops out of my mind
or heart.
Conversely,
I have forgiven
all but one or two,
of those who caused
my late wife so much
unnecessary pain.
All she wanted was to die in peace.
That was too much for that one,
those two,
whose concern was more about
money,
about rules and regulations,
than human decency.
If I want to be forgiven,
by those whom I have wronged,
then I have to forgive
the worst of the bad,
as well.
Christ said it,
so did Baha’u’llah.
So be it.
To my religiously uneducated, understanding, it has always seemed that forgiveness can become somewhat non-specific. One doesn’t have to forgive for a specific event, but may forgive in a more general way. Perhaps that is some of what is happening here?
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I think your religiously uneducated understanding is right.
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🙂 !
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When we forgive it blessed us as much or more than the forgiven!
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Absolutely!
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Yes, you are so right. Forgiving is a happy way of life. Blessings to you!
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Thank you, Miriam!
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Indeed.
When I try to forgive, it requires self-knowledge and honesty. To love God is to know there is really nothing to forgive.
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Exactly, Mark. God alone is the Proper Judge.
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You are so right Gary. Forgiveness is part and parcel of life. Although not very often do we discuss it. I have found it difficult to forgive a person who abused my whole life. But the problem was, that person, was very demanding, and I just couldn’t move on in my life.
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You have alluded to that person, in your blogs, and I ache for your experience.
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To forgive is to be free.
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I feel the freedom that comes, not just from forgiveness, but from casting aside all attachments.
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Very good article sir, honest truth spoken, something that so many have no clue of how to do nor even want to do. I am going to reblog this one for you.
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Thank you for your continued support!
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Reblogged this on Truth Troubles.
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