September 16, 2015, Prescott- Someone remarked to me, online,this evening, that my generation is finished and that I should get in my “slot”, with regard to working with youth. I know enough about this person to understand that he was just trying to get a rise out of me. It didn’t work, in that way, but it did strike me as ironic,as did his plaint that I was “bouncing around too much”.
The irony is that I have entered a five-year period of relative settlement, following four years of “bouncing around”. At a time in life when many people, especially those in the Western countries, almost demand that we retire from work, and berate those who don’t, I am returning to a regular work schedule. The reasons are two: First, I am not ready to leave the world of education behind. Second, another Western value is that we remain independent and do not burden others, financially.
I recently read of a woman, age 100, who is still working as an educator. I applaud her! In my case, I plan to work until age 70, take a two-year sabbatical of focused travel, then return to work for three more years or so. I think 75 will be a good age for me to stop gainful employment, but I don’t know as I will ever occupy a “slot”, determined by others. Conversely, I don’t ever presume to think I will know what is best for others.
So, as my transition back to having a room full of children as my daily, and long-term, responsibility begins, and I get acquainted with my students, starting next week, I ask the gadfly, and all others who look askance at those of us who do not go gently into that good night, to stay tuned. I have lots left.
I like the part about “how could I presume” to control ans direct others. (Eliot).
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Yes, and controlling someone else’s life is a fool’s errand!
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of course you have lots left. (I never cease to be amazed by the irony that our government is filled with individuals above a certain age, yet the real workforce shoos them away.)
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Few managers in their twenties and thirties care about what age their underlings are. It is those in their forties and fifties who are more threatened by their elders.
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I am glad that you are not swayed by someone’s comment of what you should do!
It is your life. So live it the way you want.
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Exactly, Angy!
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