April 13, 2017, Prescott-
A boy kicked his “best friend”, in a fit of rage.
The “best friend” is a girl.
I told her to never, ever again
accept such behavior from any boy,
or man, or man-child.
She agreed, wholeheartedly,
and he is now short one friend.
People have no business,
settling their affairs with violence.
This is true for men vs. men,
women vs. women,
women vs. men,
adults vs. children.
Harm is always foul.
No person, on earth,
need pretend that business is usual,
even after having turned the other cheek.
Either issues are addressed,
and amends are made,
by the perpetrator,
or the perp goes on, alone.
Changes are made,
by the aggressor,
or the oaf does without.
I have never struck a girl,
or woman, least of all, in anger.
I own my mistakes, though,
and have left the person
whose feelings I hurt,
as alone as she has wanted.
My son was raised,
to never strike a girl,
or woman.
To that end, he has
remained a gentleman.
To that end,
I hold myself,
accountable.
Would that all men (and women) followed this ethic! The world would be a much better place!
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One can only emulate, and hope.
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Physically striking any other human being is against my policy.
I have to say that I’d prefer to hear this boy mended his ways and his best friend the girl forgave him. I do not think friendship is a one strike you’re out situation.
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If he did take an active vow against violence, and lived it, then of course he ought to be forgiven. The girl should not, however, in my book, open herself up to further abuse.
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