December 11, 2018, Arlington, VA.-
The day broke, cold but sunny, as twenty family members gathered, to say farewell to their mother figure, who had struggled, her last six years on Earth, to maintain a say in what went on with her life, and those of her beloved children and grandchildren.
Ruth Faust Fellman had to deal with her own failing health, thankfully being aided, day to day, by a dedicated youngest daughter, a team of paraprofessionals and other family members as we were able to visit, at least now and then.
She left the struggle behind, in late October, with her spirit and her family waiting patiently, one more time, as this day of interment approached. She will rest with her husband of 64 years, on both this earthly plane and in the spirit realm. We who remain in the state of “waking”, physical activity know that truly being awake entails life far beyond what we know here. “Bunny”, her husband (my father-in-law) and their oldest daughter (my wife) are watching us, and helping more than we sometimes realize.
After the Jewish burial service, we the mourners quickly parted company, all except me leaving Arlington, for their homes. I stayed behind, with my flight back to Arizona not scheduled until tomorrow. Dinner with a friend, in midtown Washington, would take up the slack, somewhat, and give me an excuse to spend at least a few hours in the nation’s capital.
My main reason for being here, though, was accomplished and Mom’s ninety-two years of service to family and community were suitably honoured. The tombstone shown below will soon be replaced, by one that pays homage to both husband and wife. I will continue, as she admonished, to give back.
A sad, but fulfilling day! My thoughts are with you, Gary!
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Thank you, Janet.
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Oh my gosh, she sounds amazing! She makes me happy. And so do you.
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She was amazing. I’m always gratified to bring happiness to others.
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RIP. So sorry for the loss of a wonderful mother figure. I hope you make it back home safely.
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I made it back, with no trouble. Thank you for your kind words.
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So very sorry for your loss… Many prayers and comforting thoughts your way. Blessings to you
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Thank you, friend!
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I’m glad it went well. It is sad days when we bury our family.
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The sadness is tempered by the fact that her suffering has ended. Nonetheless, the number of parent figures I have left is dwindling- my Mom, one maternal uncle, four aunts and Penny’s paternal uncle.
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I have one left. She is like an older cousin.
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Treasure one another!
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