April 11, 2019-
Having woken this morning, in need of reassurance, I found myself looking at a copy of Desiderata, which I first present in its full text, before relating its words to my own state of being.
“GO PLACIDLY amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.”
By Max Ehrmann © 1927
This past week, there has been little noise and even less haste, yet I recall being often viewed as too slow and benign, when there was commotion. There is a lot of peace in my silence, especially when that silence pertains to inside my head, as well as in my surroundings.
I have done better, these past few years, at speaking my truth in a quiet manner-and at listening, even to the most insipid nonsense, without interrupting. It most likely has to do with being more secure in myself.
There will always be greater and lesser persons than me, and I’ve felt this for a long time. Loud and aggressive people have never like me much, nor have I liked them. This has always seemed to end up as my undoing, as such people are frequently favoured, at least outwardly, by many in our society.
I’ve enjoyed those achievements of mine that were genuine, and I have had more of them than my critics care to admit. If I had it to do over, I’d have stayed a counselor, and not given in to the false ambition that brought me down.
I’ve learned to be careful in business, and with my generosity-as yes, the world is full of trickery. This learning has been, a few times, accomplished through trial and error. I’ve seen true heroism and practiced it myself, a few times. The world is full of virtue.
Thus are the thoughts which come to mind, in reading the first half of Max Ehrmann’s inspired verse. I will continue, with the second five paragraphs, in the next post.