The Marvels

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July 7, 2024, Bellemont- Three people stood outside an RV, at the Pilot Truck Stop. One held a sign that said “Out of gas”. Various people were handing them money, as I passed by, going to the roundabout. I trade in commodities, not cash, and so gladly filled their gas can and wished them a better day.

I am sitting on an Internet connection that says it has NO Internet access. I am feeling plenty of energy, even though yesterday I flew across the country, then took a 2 1/2 hour bus ride, in the heat. We had a nice day with the ten middle-age school campers and six youth who are mentoring them. The kids are engaging and just glad that people care enough to spend a small part of their summer teaching them of social skills and the moral compass.

It was a pleasant trip from Prescott, made more so by a stop at Brewed Awakenings, my favourite establishment in Williams. Though I no longer need coffee to get me started in the morning, it does go nicely with breakfast or brunch, which I enjoyed this morning. Once having paid it forward, at the truck stop, I found myself getting to camp, at the same time as the two vans full of campers and gear.

Orientation was swiftly done; I received condolences, on the loss of my mother, from the cook and two of the mentors, and we each did our little activities, mostly indoors due to the heat. I have been advised that my hydration level needs to be increased even more than it has been, and this heat means my water intake will need to be triple what it was a few months ago.

Marvels are still unexpected and uplifting events, whether great or small, and have little to do with the comic book and action film characters who have been given that collective name. I expect that the next 2 1/2 days will see their share of the unexpected and uplifting.

Comely

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June 25, 2024- Mother has been unequivocal, all these years, about us sons not dwelling upon the physical appearance of this young lady or that woman. We were taught, early on, not to stare at people, or to make untoward remarks or comments on anyone’s appearance. “You will get your mouth washed out with soap!” That applied equally as much to cussing, in general, but she and Dad both stressed that our job, as boys and as men, was to safeguard the rights of women and girls.

She has been the comeliest of women, so that admonition had valid roots. No one in my circle ever said anything remotely disrespectful about her; we were hard-wired in that way. My memories of her, growing up, were centered though, not on appearance, except as a marker of self-esteem and of respect for those around us. We were taught to dress nicely for school, for medical and dental appointments and for formal social occasions. Mostly, though, how we looked was an indicator of how we regarded the people around us.

When it came time for me to choose a mate, I valued Penny’s intellect, spirituality and musical bent, even more than her beauty. We had the old Amish adage: “Good cookin’ lasts; good lookin’ don’t” on our stove, for a good period of the time we were together. She looked lovely anyway, but that was a bonus. The same is true now, with someone who has drawn me in, with her spirituality, vibrant air, common sense and gentle demeanor. That K is comely is also a bonus.

All the souls gone on will no doubt be glad for those of us who have reached that point in our lives, where we treasure that old Amish adage.

Purposeful

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December 17, 2017, Prescott-

I stayed close to home today.  My spirit guides told me it’d be a good idea.  I spent some time with friends at a local restaurant, then visited another friend’s family Christmas display.

One week is left of school, before we break for two weeks.  This week will have two regular days and three shorter ones.  My purpose remains the same, though:  Impart as much, in the way of social skills reinforcement, to our five students, and maintain a consistent routine.  This last means everything to autistic people.

I have signed on for business training, with another travel blogger, albeit in more essential business practices of TODAY’S environment- both digital and physical.  It’s legitimate- I have checked.  It may even help me with other interests of mine, like teaching about essential oils.

Another subject, that keeps coming up among my fellow bloggers, is relationships.  Well, duh!  I was asked, yesterday, by a much-older friend, as to when I was going to get married again.  I have no idea-especially since:  To women over 70, I’m a younger brother; to women in their 40’s and 50’s, I’m too old; to women in their 60’s, I am also like a sibling.  Anyone under the age of 40 is like a daughter or niece.  In short, I am quite happy with all of the above.  It’s nice to have reliable friends in my life, and not have to complicate matters with romance. Penny was one of a kind.  If there is another such person, well, I will know.  If not, I am in a good place.

I have become better at living  purposefully. 2018 may well be one of the best years of this life.