April 17, 2017, Prescott-
I read one of those Facebook things, where you put in name and birthday, and an algorithm produces a canned statement, about How It Is With You, regarding a certain aspect of life. This one was about relationships.
The algorithm told me that I was lovable, but “commitment-averse”. I’ve heard that from several people, over the past few years. Without exception, they’ve had their own agendas, and I am “Other People’s Agendas- averse”, to be sure. I like to help, live to help, but in my own space and at my own pace.
I am not commitment-averse. Penny had my full commitment and attention, especially when she needed me most. I am a father-for-life, and the big guy knows it. if he were in harm’s way, I’d drop everything and get over there. I am a son-for-life, and Mom knows it. She is fiercely independent, and that’s always a good thing. If things change for her, I’d drop everything and get over there. I am a sibling, cousin, nephew and uncle for life, and the family knows it. We are little islands but, yeah, if it comes to it, you get the point. I am, regardless of where my spirit takes me, a friend-for-life. It’s gotten me through every tough spot in which I’ve ever found myself, including those tough places where my grief got me, a few years back.
I am not commitment-averse. Recently, I walked into a small cafe, and was greeted by a soul who, I could testify on a stack of Scriptures, is one of those whom I’ve known forever. Penny was, and is, such a soul. Five good friends elsewhere, two males and three females, are likewise. I’m convinced that, in time of a needful in-gathering, we would find ourselves in the same geographic place. In fact, one such good friend is moving to a place close by, very shortly. The thing about those of us who were together, in God-knows-what sort of Soul Existence, is that we understand one another, preternaturally, even supernaturally, and it goes beyond that which we know as empathy.
I will, over time, reconnect with “K”, as I have with the others. Our friendship on this plane will follow whatever course is in store. There are, no doubt, more such souls out there, and we will find one another, likewise towards whatever end the Universe has in mind. Well, that’s it for now, with what an empathic friend here calls “the hoo-hoo stuff”.
My commitments for today are to continue clearing the backyard, get the clothes laundered and write another post, this evening, on the Atlantic Coast.