Yellowstone, Part 2: Geysers, but No Grizzlies

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I got my geyser fix this time, without going up to Old Faithful.  The active forces of West Thumb Geyser basin were in full force, on the afternoon of July 18.

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At the end of the show, there remained the blowhole, with promise of more, later.

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The shores of Yellowstone Lake are known for attracting grizzly bears, during times of plentiful fish.  I saw none, that afternoon, but the water itself was as inviting as the grand lake’s western counterparts.  Here are some scenes of West Thumb.

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The northwest and far north shores of Yellowstone Lake are bisected by the mouth of the Yellowstone River.

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Even here, well east of the Geyser Basin, there is geothermal activity.

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Once past the lake,there were still no bears, but there is Grizzly Peak.

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There are also dunes, about a dozen or so.

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The North Fork of the Shoshone River formed a border, of sorts, between Yellowstone and the more arid scenes of the North Absaroka Wilderness.  It was running rather shallow on that Thursday evening.

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Next:  The Absaroka, Buffalo Bill State Park and Cody

No Tears, No Pain

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This morning, things were made clear, as all matters of deep and abiding friendship must be, and must stay.  The person I will regard as my best friend, for the rest of my earthly life, will remain just that.  I will have her back, whenever she needs me.  She does not have to provide anything in return, other than respect for me as a person.  Today, she provided that respect in spades, which only deepens my regard for her as a human being, and as a spiritual presence.

There is no more honourable and enduring title that may be bestowed on a person, by another, than “steadfast friend”.  Too often, we can get confused by the intensity of our feelings and send the wheels of these relationships careening off one of the precipices which are all too prevalent in our psychosocial environment.  The 1970’s pop hit, “Rollercoaster of Love” pokes gentle fun at that.  This is especially true of relationships between people who recognize each other as attractive.  It is not fair, in the end, to a person who is in a vulnerable or transitional state, to place too much emphasis on the ephemeral, the physical aspects of friendship.

Each of us has a soul mate.  Once we find him or her, it lasts for all eternity, regardless of whether death or divorce removes the person from one’s physical reality.  This is the point to which my best friend and I came today.  It cements our friendship, and ought to reassure our respective soul mates that they matter most.

When I love a person, regardless of the level that love takes, I love them on their own terms, and unconditionally on mine.  There are no expectations of a reward for me, save what God ordains.  I am a somewhat romantic soul.  I believe that hugging and cuddling have benefits.  I am not, however, indiscriminate in that regard, nor am I ever of a mind to be hurtful to another human being.  A friend recently commented elsewhere that he sees other men as competition.  I am sorry he feels that way.  Every person put on this Earth is entitled to have some ONE to whom they can bond, and with whom they feel safe.  Others may come and go.  A few stay around, as cadre of support and refuge, but those steadfast friends will always be there for the purpose of safeguarding their well-loved friend AND his/her relationship with his/her soul mate.  The soul mate is never, for an instant, regarded as disposable.  To do so, is to show abject disregard for the person whom the friend claims to love.

When Penny had been in the spiritual world for a mere five months, I was getting fawning looks from women who fancied themselves as potential replacements for her.  I therefore know how my best friend must feel, as she navigates one of the most treacherous challenges of her life.  This, though, is where several of us write the book on this sort of thing.  She stands by her love for her man.  He takes the bull by the horns and becomes a better person than he ever was.  Their loyal friends, including me, stand by BOTH of them, as a unit, and do not let harm come to either one, including, especially harm from one to the other, or harm to themselves.

So, that’s where my deepest self is, and if the day comes when I meet someone who feels as much for me as I feel for her, then maybe a second marriage will be an option.  I haven’t met that person yet.  If it happens, though, Christina and Corey, I want you both at the wedding, as guests of honour.

Life is getting more beautiful every day.  Stay well, my friends, all of you.

Yellowstone, Part I: Thundering Hooves and Thermal Lakes

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Yellowstone, to me, has always meant a jaunt to Old Faithful.  This time, though, I focused solely on the eastern portion of the park.  My goal was to at least reach Greybull, in the north central area of Wyoming, by bedtime. There was plenty to see, hear, touch and smell.  The area from Moose Falls to Cody Peak is as full of exquisite experiences as anywhere in the world. Between the south entrance and Lewis Lake, there are at least two herds of American bison. SAM_5412  SAM_5414 SAM_5415

The main thing about bison is- know that you, the human, are their favourite kind of throw toy.  Get closer than 300 yards and you’d better be the Kipchoge Keino of your family.  Bison bulls can haul it! Lewis Lake, and its neighbour, Shoshone Lake, are warm- bath water warm.  The pine forest gave one of my fellow travelers the impression that Shoshone Lake would be quite cold.  She dipped her foot in, ever so apprehensively, and gave a shout of joy, as she then immersed herself, full-on, in the humongous mineral bath. Here are some views of Lewis Lake.  Note that the Teton Range stays with us, as a magnificent backdrop.

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The lake is fed by the river of the same name.  Both are named for Meriwether Lewis, commander of the early 19th Century expedition to the mouth of the Columbia River.

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Shoshone Lake, named for the indigenous people who inhabited the area on all sides of the great parks, is nearly twice the size of Lewis.  It also appeared to draw more swimmers.

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These lakes call out:  “Slow down and soak awhile”.  Yet onward I go.

Next: West Thumb and Yellowstone Lake.

The Wounded, The Judges and The High Horse

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I am going to take a few minutes with this, before going out to pull more weeds in my front yard.  Of course, I will also post about the American bison and two of Yellowstone’s southern lakes, later today.

A man I have never met, but have come to know vicariously, through the eyes of a mutual friend, is struggling with a medical condition that I’ll not mention here.  He has not, to the best of my knowledge, received adequate resolution to this condition.  He has opted to self-medicate, and to excess.

Some others I know have responded to his actions with ill-disguised scorn.  This is the way, it seems, of modern society, at least here in the West.  In so doing, they disregard the words of  Jesus the Christ, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.” John, 8:7. They may not have read similar words from the Pen of Baha’u’llah, “If ye meet the abased or the down-trodden, turn not away disdainfully from them, for the King of Glory ever watcheth over them and surroundeth them with such tenderness as none can fathom except them that have suffered their wishes and desires to be merged in the Will of your Lord, the Gracious, the All-Wise. ” Gleanings From The Writings of Baha’u’llah, 315:23.

It’s something we all do, from time to time, for any number of reasons.  Perhaps, as in my own case in times past, it’s a matter of expediency. It might also be that the onlooker sees something in him/herself that is reflected in the other person’s real or perceived transgressions.  The bottom line, though, is this:  The suffering person is still in the world; is still in the lives of those he loves and of those who love him; still has the capacity to heal, to grow, to change.  No judgment from another person will change that reality.

High horses don’t take well to the high ground.  They stumble on the scree and pebbles, which the careful goats and sheep navigate so well.  History shows that the Caiaphases, De Torquemadas, McCarthys and Starrs of the world tend to fall precipitously, when they reach the inevitable climax of their power.  God, the Unknowable, is the only Judge Whose Hand is sure, steady and equitable.

This is a man who, though I have never met him and may never meet him, is worth my love and support- however indirect and oblique that love and support have to be.  You and I gain nothing by his failure, and may well benefit in many ways by his recovery.  So, I remain dismounted from my high horse and lead it gently through the scree and pebbles.

The Grand Tetons

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I passed through gleaming, clean-as-a-whistle Jackson, stopping briefly at the Visitors Center, to inquire about WiFi, so that I could check for messages from a friend.  I was politely directed to the first Visitors Center in the Grand Teton region.

So, on I went, and learned later that I needed to hone both my intuition and my communications skills.  Nonetheless, the scenery en-route is both a tonic for the soul and a challenge- as if the mountains are saying ” Do you think you are a seasoned hiker?  Come play with us, big boy!”

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Little old me continued on the path to insight and enlightenment, though the wind made my t-shirt balloon out a bit.

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Grand Teton, though, is not a long park, north to south.  I found myself in the behemoth that is Yellowstone National Park, in very short order.

My Yellowstone visit will be covered in three posts:  The bison herds to Shoshone Lake;

West Thumb and Yellowstone Lake; The Absaroka and Buffalo Bill State Park.

I left happy, but with a strange feeling that something was amiss.

The Bridger-Teton Express, Part 2: The Snake River Valley, from Alpine to Jackson

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After leaving Afton, I pretty much stuck to the road- until I passed the tourist town of Alpine.   Then, I reached the Grand Canyon of the Snake River.  As with our Grand Canyon in AZ, Wyoming’s draws rafters by the busload.  No matter; although hordes of tourists are a concern for conservationists, long-term, the presence of lots of other people has never bothered me much.  I don’t go in for trinkets and mementos of a visit to a tourist mecca.  I would buy things for my son, or for a certain special friend, but neither of them are very big on junk, either.  So, I don’t stand in long lines much at all.

Jim Bridger, for whom the Bridger-Teton National Forest is partially named, along with the Teton Range of the Rocky Mountains, was a “mountain man” in these parts during the mid-19th Century.  Every school child in Wyoming and Montana is sure to learn a fair amount about Jim and his close ties to the indigenous people of the northern Rockies.

The Snake and Gros Ventre Ranges, and the river itself, captivated the hordes of rafters, and me.  The Gros Ventre show themselves on the south and east banks of the Snake River.

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As the river broke through the heavy forest growth, at the raft and kayak put-ins, I walked down for some views of the grandest river in the northwest Rockies, save the Missouri.

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A visitor from New Zealand called me over and pointed out some better views of the open flow.  He is a home builder, by profession, and does his own architecture and design.  The Renaissance Man lifestyle has not disappeared.  In my afternoon years, with my sun still bright, I am always glad to meet such people and explore their views, much as I explore landscapes and build new friendships.

As he left to rejoin his “mates”, I enjoyed the views to which he was referring.

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My mindset was healed somewhat by the magnificence.  I look back on the hour or so that was spent here, just taking in the ambiance of the river and its mountain backdrop.  The message is clear- “Gary, remember the song, ‘May It Be’, from The Lord of the Rings- ‘The promise is within you now’. ”

There would be so much more- Promise, doubt, regrouping and fulfillment, as the quest continued.

Next:  Grand Teton National Park

The Bridger-Teton Express, Part 1: Cokeville to Afton

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Thursday, July 18, was a seminal day along my path of purification.  It’s never easy to cast out one’s own demons, so to speak. Yet, if I did not accomplish this, I would well be casting some very special relationships adrift.

I woke early enough in Cokeville’s Hideout Motel to grab some breakfast from my cooler and a cup of in-room coffee, before setting off  to check out some of the Bridger-Teton National Forest, en route to Afton, home of my friends, Derek and Sima Cockshut.  This route goes through a tiny sliver of Idaho, between two large swaths of Wyoming.  Here, we are back in the Rockies, in the far west of the Equality State.

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These scenes are near Salt River Pass, which keeps Afton a bit isolated from southwest Wyoming, in the severity of winter.

It wasn’t long, though, before I spotted the comfy Main Street of this mountain paradise, and smelled fresh chocolate, at my friends’ shop.

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The complex, on the west side of the main street in Afton, also features a Baha’i Faith Meeting Place, with a growing library, for independent study and reflection, a key tenet of our Faith

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My friends are busy throughout the day, producing the fine chocolate which has traveled as far afield as Afghanistan and Europe, during the shipping season, of October- May.  Calm, self-assured Derek, and effervescent, talkative Sima are a study in opposites, but they are opposites who have attracted for 45 years.  I am honoured to have known these fine folks, off and on, since 1985.  I also have an affinity for their several varieties of chocolate.

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Across the street from Star Valley Chocolates, there are a Baha’i-owned floral shop and several other laid-back establishments.  The Olympian, Rulon Gardner, and his family are Afton natives and have a signal presence here in the Star Valley.

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I spent about thirty minutes here, as the day was proceeding at a faster clip. and much remained.

Next:  The Bridger-Teton Express, Part 2- The Snake River Valley

Two Polished Stones

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On Wednesday night, I drove into the first Forest Service campground to which I came,after my friend in Del Norte said the rental cabin was being renovated, and was unavailable.  As it was a calm night, and free of moisture, I rolled out my ground tarp, bed pad, sleeping bag and pillow, and got ready for sleep.  I prefer that there is nothing between the stars and me, whenever possible.

Just before greeting the dream world, I placed my watch and camera on the picnic table. There was nothing else on the table, at that point. I would occasionally wake, regard the starry sky with awe, and contemplate all that I had seen and heard on this trip, both good and bad.  Generally, though, the sleep was restful.

In the morning, I awoke, took my change of clothes into the latrine, got dressed and shaved.  I went over to the picnic table and retrieved my watch and camera.  There, right next to them, were two polished silica rocks.  These did not remotely resemble anything that was on the ground.  I will probably never know, in this life, how they got there, or who left them.

It did get me to thinking.  Rocks get a silicone quality through fire, rough treatment by wind and water and more heat.  I thought of my wife, who suffered mightily, her last eight years, yet maintained a cheerful disposition until nearly the end of her days.  I also thought of friends, one in particular, who are undergoing extreme pain and stress, at the hands of people whom they trusted.  I then thought:  “Gary, are YOU being trustworthy?  Are you making situations better, or worse,by your own behaviour?”

The pain and suffering in this world are seldom about me.  I am almost a poster child for Bob Dylan’s “Positively Fourth Street”, or Keith Emerson’s “Lucky Man”, yet I do have more to me than a goofy, smiling face.  My friends’ hardships are my hardships, by choice, and I will not rest easily while any of them are in pain.

They in my social circle, though, tend to be fiercely independent and want to do it all themselves.  I know the feeling.  I didn’t want or expect much help, when caring for Penny.  Our son was there, doing things a teenager should never have to do.  Otherwise, it was my wife, polishing her stone, and me, moving forward, one step at a time, and not knowing what was ahead for me, once she was gone.

I have purchased a book, about a friend’s late child, and her struggle with cancer.  I will read this with close attention, because it defines the attitude we each must have in facing horrific pain, every bit as much as did my wife’s struggle with neurological disease, and those of countless other friends, and friends’ relatives, who have struggled with, and sometimes succumbed to, relentless disease.

To whom much is given, much is expected.  I am sorry to those whose needs I could meet, but haven’t always.  At the same time, know that every waking moment, you are in my heart, and need only say- “Hey, FRIEND, what about me?”  None of us need burnish our stones in isolation.

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( I will share this on Facebook, though it is somewhat personal, just because there are people on FB who need to be re-assured that they are deeply loved.)