May 8, 2016, Prescott- Talking with my mother today, I learned she has a new smart phone- which I called her new “hobby”. It’s great for her, at a certain age, to take up technology. She wants to study every facet of it, slowly- so as not to get bollixed up. It was raining in the Boston area, as it was here, and was about the same temperature. Everyone back there seems to be on an even keel, which I hope continues as long as possible.
She thanked me for thinking of her. I can’t imagine a time when I would not do so. Mom gave the best of her life for the five of us, for over 40 years .(There was fourteen years’ difference between my youngest brother, now deceased, and me.) Helping her, when we can, is more than poetic justice. She remarked that she knows of some mothers, whose children have not spoken to them in years. What a terrible thing to have happen! I am something of a loner, but I can’t imagine not keeping in regular touch with my family members- especially my mother, my son and siblings.
I wish for peace to be made, between those who are at odds with their parents, or their children. There is no greater heartache, I would imagine, short of losing them to death. Family is the bedrock of any society. Happy Mother’s Day to all women who have nurtured a child to adulthood!