Trust

June 29, 2017, Prescott-

Today went much better for me.  A smaller shelter, and a more closely-knit crew, made a lot of difference.  Still, when a member of the “inner circle” showed up, at the end of my shift, I just wanted to get out of the building, as soon as possible.

I realize this is rather irrational, but emotions generally are.  There are relatively few people I fully trust- my son,  mother, siblings,  six or seven cousins, about a dozen friends here in the Prescott area and about fifteen other friends in various parts of the country.  I’m sure those numbers would be higher, were I to have more contact with family and friends, than I do at present.

It has nothing to do with my love for people, but rather, my perception of how they really feel about me.   This goes back to childhood, to my wandering nature and to not having really stuck with one core group of friends, growing up.    It also has to do with the somewhat anonymous culture of bigger towns and cities in the West, and of apartment living in general.  My neighbours, on either side, are rather suspicious of me, and say little, beyond a curt “hello”.  I carry on, with a friendly countenance, anyway.

In the end, we leave the world, alone; yet in the meantime, as people in small towns remind the rest of us, time and again, it is a far better idea to work up some trust.  There have been times when I have let others down, and I’ve tried to make amends.  Lord knows, I am working on my own trust issues, but it’s just not easy.

Those are my thoughts, at the end of a long day.

9 thoughts on “Trust

  1. Trust is a fragile creature. Once broken it is difficult to mend. I know how you feel – I am very sensitive to the impressions of others but over time it has become much less difficult. I feel it is their problem not mine! There is nothing wrong with a select circle of friends….

    • I think each of us goes through periods of doubt, and yes, the tried and true friends, who are actually closer in number to three dozen, worldwide, have been my refuge, on several occasions.

  2. Trust and communications go hand in hand — and for me, frayed trust in others leads to questioning trust in myself. I hope you can find trust in other team members!

  3. Fatigue leads to all manner of mishaps, as well as miscommunication. Your summer holiday is designed to give you time to de-stress as well as Accomplishing things you want to do. Take some time for yourself, take care, and enjoy!!!

  4. I am glad you will have me-time, Gary. You do so much for others, replenishing your energy is taking “time for real rest and relaxation.” (Shoghi Effendi)

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