October 10, 2020-
Today, “Double Tenth” to the Chinese of Taiwan (who regard it as their National Day) is also the normal beginning of cooler weather, around these parts, give or take a few random warmer days in mid-October, Since it is a time of change, I tend to reflect on changes within myself and around me, in the month or so before I complete this latest trip around the Sun.
Probably the biggest change in front of me is actually a reversion- There will be more eating at home base. I have gone to restaurants, several times a week, since COVID19 hit-either getting take-out or, as things calmed down for a while, taking a seat at a table. I’ve mentioned before, that a single diner taking up a table is viewed as a nuisance in some places. That is true of about half of the establishments I have frequented- thus comes a good opportunity to cut back on “support meals”, which were designed to help keep restaurants afloat during the height of the first wave of the pandemic.
A year ago, or even a few months prior, I might have been inclined to take cold treatment in a public place rather personally. I see it now as more a matter of logistics and economics- places with limited seating and which draw families and couples, are practicing their idea of triage. There are maybe five restaurants in town where my presence is still very welcome, so it is those which will yet get my business.
What makes the whole change easy to accomplish is the overall benefit to my dietary health. It’s not such a rough adjustment, after all.
Do you always dine alone?
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Not always, but about 80% of the time.
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Me too. Maybe more than 80%…
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Out here, people who dine alone are seen as losers, especially by retirees-who should know better. The kids(those under 35) are more likely to include me in any festivities going on.
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Sorry to hear that… Different generations, different values, I guess. My dad called last week and gave me a whole lecture about being almost 40 and still single…
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Your life, your rules. There is someone for everyone out there-but there is no set timeline for that connection to transpire. I have a good friend in Canada, who met the love of her life when she was 43.
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I have a friend who got married in her 60s and he was in his late 80s. Anything is possible.
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Good bless them.
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