January 7, 2019-
Last night, just before I signed off for the evening, I got a caustic response to a few suggestions I had made, to another blogger’s post. This sort of thing is a risk that comes with being part of a public network.
While I took the liberty of “unfollowing” that person’s blog, as one should not intrude on another’s space without that person’s consent, I had to ponder her motivation for such an outburst. She did, after all, ask for “ideas” about her particular dilemma.
There are a couple of possibilities-She may have been in the mood for a “game of gotcha”, though trolling, under the circumstances she described in the post to which I responded, seems rather far-fetched. More likely, she is looking at the various suggestions made, and winnowing them out, favouring those that are as close to her comfort zone as possible, while still entailing some effort on her part to solve the problem described therein.
That’s an understandable, human practice, and I daresay we all do that, with regard to some, if not most, issues in our lives. She pointed out that I didn’t know her schedule, so how could my suggestions fit? None of us can be inside another’s brain, or heart. So, we do the best we can, when asked. If our ideas are wide of the mark, well, at least we made an effort. I will continue to offer ideas to to others, when asked, and can only guarantee that I will be putting some thought and feeling into the process.
No pain, no gain.